After the Abruzzo earthquake Italian Prime Minister Berlusconi was quoted saying the victims living in tent cities should think of themselves as being on a camping holiday. He hit the news again a day ago by telling a female doctor “I wouldn’t mind being resuscitated by you”.
The press took it badly, but Dr Carrieri from Milan took up the Prime Minister’s defence, saying he had paid her a “gallant” compliment to “take the drama out of the situation”. (Full)
Which makes me think of men, women and Italy… After living in Italy for two years, I still find it remarkable how women are given remarks by Italian men. Women who lived in Italy for a while might easily see them as compliments, but foreigners would surely be surprised if not insulted:
Not only is staring almost an art, but it is also usual to be greeted in a shop with a “Ciao Bella!” (“Hi beautiful”) and to get a “Arrivederci, cara” (“Bye, sweet”).
It is usual to be talked to when sitting (as a woman) alone at a table in a restaurant or bar. Getting whistled at is a daily occurrence, remarks about the way a woman looks or dresses are common. Most women don’t react, or (pretend to) see it as a compliment. Only they can tell if deep down inside they do. But if you, as a female tourist, visit Italy, don’t be surprised…
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